You can read about me here, peruse the archives here and read popular posts here.We get along great and I am head-over-heels in love with him.
He has been divorced for over two year, and has two boys, ages 8 and 10. She was having an “emotional” affair with an 18- year-old from the gym his boys went to, and she wanted to see what else was out there. He thought he would date for a few years before he found a “good one.” I have not met his boys yet, and he has no idea when I will. I feel it’s just the next step to take in our relationship.
I know he is into me, and he tells me everything except “I love you.” He initiates contact and makes most plans and pays for everything.
He wants to spoil me because that’s what his ex-wife expected, but I just want to be with him.
He is still very close to his ex in-laws — very close … I have told him this, and he is spending less time with them.
However, he continues to stress that they are the only solid family he has had in his life for the past 20 years, and they have been good to him. He says he and his ex lived in a cocoon their whole marriage.
One of the boys is having a birthday in August that I will not be a part of, but all of the ex-family will. They never went out, and they only associated with her family.He wants to see his boys on their birthdays, but that means dinner with the ex-wife and in-laws. We have plans all the time with my friends, and he loves all the adult time and things that we do together.The holidays are fast approaching, so if you're meeting your boyfriend's parents for the first time, you might want to check out the five helpful tips that Glamour magazine is sharing with us in their November issue.As we all know, meeting the parents is a huge rite of passage, one that is never taken lightly, so check out my take on their five suggestions below and a few of my own, too. If you have a relationship/dating question I can help answer, you can send me your letters at I have been dating my boyfriend for nine months. You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram.