Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Fairly soon into us getting to know each other he asked me "the last time I was intimate?
Does date mean something other than 2 people going out somewhere together and getting to know each other or is it code for something else??
OP, it depends on what you told him about the last time you were intimate.
If you gave him rhyme and verse just because he asked you, or if you told him to mind his own business untill he got to know you better, that could have a dramatic effect on the level of respect he initially felt for you.
The thing is with dating, if a guy is fishing for information you don't want to give him, then he won't respect you for giving it.
This is what I define as dating-Getting out for drinks, coffee, the zoo, a movie, skating, or some other simple type of function that ONLY involves 2 people...... Dating is two people spending time with each other "Feeling Out" if they have common ground to establish a long term relationship which will then INCLUDE sex."Seeking Friends" means exactly that...
you want to hang out with a few people, and see if you like someone to see them on a dating level.(thus the theory of growing towards a real relationship)Dating does NOT include sex in my book.If anything he will see you as an easy asking that to me is asking how desperate she is.if she says long time ago, I'll figure she doesnt like sex or is playing games with me for free dinners...then again, she may be ready to have sex since its been so long...if she says last night, I might figure she likes sex and maybe she will have sex with me too. I believe that you are wrong with your definition of "Dating" but perhaps I live in the dark ages....